Alice Sebold was walking down the street in Syracuse, New York, in 1981 when she thought she saw the man who had raped her months ago. Before going to the police, Sebold, then 18, went to the ...
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Send your questions for Stoya and Rich to howtodoit@slate.com. Dear How to Do It, I am a 40-something woman who has been with my husband for 20 years. We are ...