I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND LYING ABOUT DEPLOYMENT—NOW I DON’T KNOW WHO HE REALLY IS When Ellis first told me he was getting deployed again, I didn’t ask questions. That’s what you do when you're married to someone in uniform—you trust them, even when the truth feels like a maybe. He left last March. Said it was a classified rotation. I kissed him goodbye at the base gate and told myself not to cry. But six weeks in, things started to feel… off. No FaceTimes. No base updates. No access to the usual supp