Repetition compulsion is a term coined by Freud, but its impact is deeply personal. Trauma survivors often find themselves unconsciously re-creating the pain they grew up with—drawn to relationships that mirror early wounds. Not because they want to suffer, but because, deep down, they believe this time they can be enough. If they love hard enough, change enough, stay quiet enough… maybe this time, they’ll finally be chosen, protected, or seen.This is the nervous system seeking mastery through f